Category: Pet Resources

The Missing Piece in Pet Care: Why These 12 Resources Matter More Than Ever

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date January 14, 2026

Most pet owners are doing everything they’ve been taught to do. You feed well. You follow routines. You schedule vet visits. You research behavior changes. You pay attention. And still, there are moments when something doesn’t quite add up. When symptoms don’t fully explain behavior, or when your animal seems unsettled even though nothing obvious is wrong. That uncertainty isn’t a lack of care. It’s a sign that something important is happening in the space between what we can observe and what our animals are experiencing.

Over the past year, this showed up clearly in the Ask Your Animals community. Twelve resources to help pet owners rose to the top, not because they were promoted the most, but because they were used the most. Pet owners returned to them when behavior felt confusing, when symptoms felt subtle, or when they sensed their animal was communicating something they couldn’t quite interpret yet.

Observation Alone Isn’t Enough

What these twelve downloads have in common is simple: they help bridge the gap between observation and understanding.

Most pet care systems focus on physical symptoms or outward behavior. These resources focus on how animals communicate before things escalate through patterns, energy, emotional shifts, and changes in routine or environment. They don’t replace veterinary care or training. They support the moments where pet owners are left wondering, What am I missing?

Animals are constantly communicating. Not just through body language, but through emotion, energy, frequency, and the subtle telepathic exchanges that happen between species every day. When we learn how to listen in these ways, behavior makes more sense, symptoms feel less mysterious, and our responses become calmer and more effective. Animals, especially prey animals and sensitive companions, are wired to adapt. They adjust silently until they can’t. By the time distress is obvious, they’ve often been communicating for quite a while.

That’s why observation alone isn’t enough.

The 12 Resources

The twelve most-downloaded Ask Your Animals resources in 2025 were created to meet pet owners in that earlier space. They teach you how to notice patterns, interpret signals, and respond with clarity, so communication becomes part of everyday care, not a last resort. You can download each of them by clicking the name below.

The 4 Pillars That These 12 Resources Support

The 12 most-downloaded resources from Ask Your Animals all point to the same truth: When we learn how animals communicate, care becomes clearer, calmer, and more effective. Rather than being random downloads, these guides fall into four intentional categories that support communication across species.

1. Pattern Recognition & Symptom Awareness

Several of the most-used resources focus on recognizing subtle physical and behavioral patterns before they become emergencies.

These tools help pet owners:

Track symptoms over time instead of reacting to one-off events
Notice the environmental and emotional context
Advocate more clearly with veterinarians and care teams

This is communication through pattern literacy learning how animals show discomfort without words.

2. Behavior as Communication (Not Misbehavior)

Across dogs, cats, and horses, many resources focus on “strange,” confusing, or frustrating behaviors.

These guides reframe behaviors such as:

Spooking, refusal, or hesitation
Sudden clinginess or withdrawal
Nighttime activity, staring, pacing, or avoidance

Instead of labeling these moments as defiance or randomness, the resources ask a different question:
What is my animal trying to tell me? This shift alone transforms relationships.

3. Nervous System Regulation & Energetic Care

Animals respond to energy. Several of the most popular resources focus on:

Seasonal and environmental stress (heat, travel, routine changes)
Emotional overwhelm and co-regulation
Creating safety through presence, tone, rhythm, and grounding

These guides help owners understand that calm isn’t trained, it’s transmitted.

This is where animal communication moves beyond observation and into felt sense, where animals receive reassurance through the nervous system, not logic.

4. Connection, Trust, and Telepathic Bonding

At the heart of all 12 resources is one shared theme: Animals experience safety through connection.

Guides centered on gratitude, stillness, and intentional presence help owners:

Strengthen the energetic bond with their animal
Communicate reassurance without forcing interaction
Recognize how animals mirror human emotion and intention

This is the foundation of interspecies telepathy, not something mystical, but a biological and relational exchange that animals already use naturally.

Where Animal Communication Fits In

Animal communication is not about “talking” the way humans do. It’s about:

Receiving impressions
Noticing emotional shifts
Feeling when something doesn’t align
Understanding without needing language

Animals already communicate this way with each other, and with us. Humans are simply less practiced at listening.

These 12 resources help bridge that gap. They don’t require belief. They require attention. When owners begin listening this way:

Symptoms make more sense
Behavior feels less personal
Decisions feel clearer
Animals settle more quickly

Why These 12 Resources Are So Effective

They work because they:

Respect animals as sentient communicators
Integrate physical, emotional, and energetic care
Reduce fear and confusion for both animals and humans
Teach listening instead of fixing
Support a partnership instead of control

They don’t replace professionals. They complete the picture. The missing piece was never effort, love, or commitment. It was learning how to listen in the ways animals speak. These 12 resources exist to support that shift gently, practically, and respectfully.

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Spring Adventures: How to Help Your Pet Transition to More Outdoor Time

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date March 1, 2025

As the chill of winter melts away and the vibrant energy of Spring begins to flow, many of our beloved companions are ready—or sometimes not yet ready—to step into the great outdoors. As an animal communicator, I’ve learned that every pet has its own inner voice, expressing its feelings and desires about venturing beyond the familiar indoor space. In this post, we’ll explore how to read these signs, gradually introduce your pet to new experiences, manage overstimulation, and use animal communication techniques to ease the transition.

Recognizing the Signs: Is Your Pet Ready?

Pets express their readiness for outdoor adventures in subtle yet profound ways. Here are a few indicators to watch for:

Curiosity and Alertness: If your pet gazes out the window or shows interest in the sounds of nature—chirping birds, rustling leaves, and distant footsteps—it may be signaling readiness for more outdoor time.
Calm Confidence: A relaxed posture, wagging tail, or gentle approach toward the door can be signs that your pet is eager to explore.
Hesitance or Anxiety: On the other hand, if your pet seems apprehensive—hiding, tucking its tail, or exhibiting signs of stress—this may indicate that it isn’t yet ready for a full outdoor adventure. Respecting these cues is key.

Understanding these signals helps you tailor the experience to your pet’s current state of mind. Every animal is unique, and what works for one might not work for another.

Gradual Exposure: Easing Pets Into Spring

We tend to limit or drawback on how much we do in the Winter. This includes how much, long, and far we take our pets outside. For some pets, the comfort of their own yard feels like the only safe space, making venturing beyond the familiar borders a challenge. If your pet hesitates to go beyond their usual boundaries, here are some gentle ways to encourage exploration:

Start at the Edge: Instead of heading straight into unfamiliar territory, spend time near the perimeter of your yard. Let them observe and sniff the surroundings without pressure.
Extend the Comfort Zone: Gradually step just beyond the yard, using treats or their favorite toy as motivation. Reward any small steps they take toward exploration.
Familiar Scents, New Spaces: Bring a blanket, toy, or even a piece of clothing with your scent to the new area. These familiar smells can provide reassurance in an unfamiliar setting.
Slow & Steady Wins the Race: Each pet adjusts at their own pace. Some may take to new areas quickly, while others need repeated exposure. Allow them to retreat when needed and try again later.
Positive Reinforcement: Use encouragement and rewards to associate new spaces with positive experiences. Never force them forward—patience builds confidence!

By respecting your pet’s pace and offering gradual exposure, you can help them gain confidence beyond the backyard, turning the outside world into an adventure instead of an obstacle.

Recognizing Overstimulation and How to Manage It

While fresh air and natural surroundings are generally invigorating, too much stimulation can overwhelm your pet. Look out for these signs:

Excessive Panting or Rapid Breathing: This can indicate that your pet is feeling stressed or overheated.
Pacing or Restlessness: If your pet seems unable to settle down, it might be a sign of sensory overload.
Uncharacteristic Behavior: Sudden changes like excessive barking, hiding, or even signs of aggression could mean your pet is experiencing too much stimulation.

Managing Overstimulation:

Provide a Safe Retreat: Always have a quiet, shaded spot where your pet can retreat and decompress. This could be a designated area in your yard or even a portable pet tent when out on longer adventures.
Slow Down the Pace: If your pet starts to show signs of overwhelm, gently guide them back to a calm environment. Sometimes, a brief pause is all they need to reset.
Use Calming Techniques: Soft, reassuring tones and gentle petting can help soothe your pet’s nerves.

The Power of Animal Communication

When your pet is reluctant to explore beyond familiar borders, even though I’m not physically present with them, I can still help by connecting with their energy using intuitive techniques and tuning into body sensations from body scans. Here’s how:

Energy Reading Through Images and Body Scans: I tap into your pet’s energetic field by analyzing pictures and the sensations gathered from body scans. This helps uncover hidden emotions or memories that might be keeping them indoors.
Identifying Underlying Issues: The impressions I receive can reveal if your pet’s reluctance stems from past negative experiences, environmental stress, or physical discomfort. Understanding these signals is the first step toward creating a more comfortable environment.
Interpreting Subtle Cues: The images and body sensations guide me in pinpointing areas of anxiety or fear. This insight allows me to identify specific triggers influencing your pet’s behavior.
Guiding You in Making Adjustments: With this information, I can advise you on creating a more inviting outdoor experience. Whether it’s adjusting the pace of outdoor exposure, selecting quieter spots, or incorporating comforting items, you’ll have clear steps to support your pet’s transition.
Providing Reassurance Through Connection: I offer you reassurance by explaining what I’m sensing from your pet. This understanding helps you respond with empathy and patience, ensuring that each step toward the outdoors is a gentle, positive experience.

By using these techniques, I help you bridge the gap between your pet’s inner world and the challenges of going outside, allowing you to support them with compassion and informed guidance.

Spring offers a wonderful opportunity to reconnect with nature and help your pet embrace the vibrant outdoors. By observing your pet’s unique signs of readiness, gradually introducing them to new experiences, and using animal communication to soothe any anxieties, you pave the way for enriching adventures together. Remember, every pet’s journey is different. Patience, empathy, and attentiveness are your best tools as you guide your furry friend into this new season of exploration. Happy spring adventures!

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Setting Positive Intentions for a Pawsitive New Year: Using Animal Communication to Strengthen Bonds with Your Pets

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date November 29, 2023

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As the new year approaches, it’s a wonderful time for pet owners to reflect on their relationships with their furry companions and set intentions for a harmonious and fulfilling journey ahead. One powerful tool that can facilitate this process is animal communication—an incredible way to deepen the bond between humans and their beloved pets while fostering understanding and mutual respect.

Embracing the Power of Animal Communication

Animal communication isn’t about simply talking to animals in the conventional sense. It’s a practice that involves tuning into your pet’s thoughts, emotions, and sensations, creating a bridge of understanding that transcends verbal language. It’s a means of establishing a deeper connection and gaining insight into your pet’s needs, desires, and overall well-being.

Setting Positive Intentions

As pet owners, setting positive intentions involves aligning your thoughts and actions with the shared well-being of you and your furry companion. Here’s how you can use animal communication to set intentions for a beautiful year ahead:

1. Cultivating Understanding

Begin by dedicating quiet moments to connect with your pet. Practice mindfulness and openness, allowing yourself to be receptive to their signals. Observe their behaviors, gestures, and vocalizations. Through this observation, seek to understand their unique ways of expressing themselves.

2. Establishing Trust

Building trust is essential in any relationship, including the one you share with your pet. Communicate your love, appreciation, and respect. Use gentle, reassuring words and actions. Visualize your desired positive outcome in each situation. Be consistent in your behavior, respecting their boundaries while fostering an environment of safety and security.

3. Creating Balance and Wellness

Set intentions that focus on the well-being of your pet. Whether it’s introducing new activities for mental stimulation, ensuring a balanced diet, or incorporating regular exercise into their routine, aim for holistic wellness. Use animal communication to gauge their responses and preferences, tailoring their care to align with their needs.

4. Strengthening Connection

Nurture the emotional connection with your pet by spending quality time together. Engage in activities that bring joy to both of you. Listen to their cues during these moments—observe their body language and responses. Use this communication to deepen your understanding of their likes, dislikes, and comfort zones.

5. Setting Goals Together

In the spirit of the new year, set achievable goals that benefit both you and your pet. Perhaps it’s learning a new trick, exploring a different walking route, or even incorporating relaxation techniques like massage or meditation for both of you to unwind together.

Animal Communication

The above tips for setting positive intentions are all great ways to enhance your relationship wth your pet 1-on-1. When you find yourself seeking deeper insights, detailed information, or a health assessment for your beloved pet that may extend beyond your current understanding, connecting with an experienced animal communicator can offer invaluable assistance. Animal communicators, also known as animal medical intuitive, specialize in tuning into animals on a profound level, providing insights and understanding that might transcend your immediate scope. Whether it’s unraveling complex behaviors, understanding their emotions, or assessing their well-being, an animal communicator can serve as a valuable partner in nurturing a deeper connection and addressing intricate aspects of your pet’s needs that might require an advanced level of communication.

By incorporating animal communication into your relationship with your pet, you pave the way for several incredible benefits:

Strengthened bond: Enhanced understanding leads to a deeper connection between you and your pet.
Improved well-being: Aligning intentions with your pet’s needs promotes a healthier and happier life for both of you.
Resolving issues: Address behavioral concerns or emotional distress by listening to your pet’s communication cues and responding accordingly.
Mutual trust: Establishing trust through open communication creates a more harmonious and trusting relationship.

As we step into a new year, let’s embrace using animal communication to foster empathy, compassion, and a profound connection with our pets. By setting positive intentions and practicing mindful communication, we can create a year filled with mutual understanding, love, and joy in our relationships with our beloved furry friends. Cheers to a pawsitively wonderful new year ahead!

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Navigating Holiday Travel: Communicating with Your Pets for a Stress-Free Journey

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date November 25, 2023

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The holiday season often means travel for many families, but for our furry companions, changes in routine and unfamiliar environments can trigger anxiety and stress. Communicating effectively with your pets about upcoming holiday travel plans can make a significant difference in easing their worries and ensuring a smoother journey for both them and you.

Understanding Pet Anxiety

Animals thrive on routine and familiarity, and any disruption to their environment or schedule can lead to stress. Symptoms of pet anxiety may manifest differently in each animal but can include excessive barking, pacing, hiding, loss of appetite, or even digestive issues. Recognizing these signs is the first step in addressing their concerns.

Preparing Your Pets for Holiday Travel

1. Introduce Changes Gradually

If possible, introduce elements of your travel plans gradually to acclimate your pet. Leave the carrier or travel crate open and inviting in the weeks leading up to the trip, allowing them to explore and get comfortable.

2. Prepare to Maintain Routine and Familiarity

As much as possible, plan to maintain your pet’s regular routine amidst the holiday chaos. Stick to consistent feeding times, play sessions, and walks to provide stability and a sense of security.

3. Know What’s Ahead

Communicate with those who will be where you’re going to see what is in the physical space that might create stress. If you know that your animal is afraid of or likes to get into Christmas trees, make a plan to avoid them as much as possible. You also may want to inquire about holiday decor like tinsel and other items that can be harmful to your pet so that you can make the space suitable for them.

4. Use Positive Reinforcement

Associate travel-related items, like carriers or car rides, with positive experiences. Offer treats, toys, or comforting blankets when they interact with these items, creating positive associations.

5. Communicate Calmly and Reassuringly

Our pets pick up on our holiday stress but they do not have the context to understand where that stress is coming from. Give your pets the reassuring guidance they need by keeping your stress levels down and remembering to breathe. Engage in gentle, reassuring communication with your pet. Use soothing tones and calming words to convey a sense of security. Let them know you’re there and that they’re safe.

Using Animal Communication for Holiday Travel

1. Establish Verbal and Non-Verbal Cues

Animals are highly perceptive to our verbal and non-verbal cues. Use consistent words or phrases associated with travel, such as “car ride” or “time to go,” paired with positive reinforcement like treats or affection.

2. Practice Visualization Techniques

Before the trip, spend quiet moments visualizing a calm and stress-free journey for both you and your pet. Share these peaceful thoughts with your pet through calming energy and a comforting touch.

3. Listen to Their Signals

Pay attention to your pet’s communication cues. Observe their body language, vocalizations, and behaviors to gauge their comfort level and adjust your approach accordingly.

On Travel Day

1. Create a Comfortable Environment

Make their carrier or travel space cozy with familiar bedding and comforting scents. Play soothing music or use calming pheromones to create a serene atmosphere.

2. Offer Comfort and Reassurance

Stay close to your pet during travel, offering verbal reassurance and occasional comfort touches. Use a calm demeanor to transmit a sense of safety and security.

3. Take Breaks and Offer Familiarity

During road trips, take frequent breaks to allow your pet to stretch, use the bathroom, and have a familiar smell of their bedding or a toy to comfort them. Always double-check the security of the leash and harness before rest stops.

Clear, gentle communication is key to easing your pet’s anxiety during holiday travel. By understanding their needs, using consistent cues, and offering reassurance, you can help create a more relaxed and stress-free experience for your furry companion. Remember, patience and empathy go a long way in ensuring a harmonious journey for both you and your beloved pet. Safe travels!

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Holiday Stress: How to Keep Your Pets Calm

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date October 28, 2023

The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness. However, it can also be a source of stress for your beloved pets. As an animal communicator, I’ve had the privilege of understanding the needs and emotions of animals despite the time of year and have helped pet owners navigate how the holidays affect them. I’m happy to share some insights on keeping your furry friends calm and happy during this festive time.

Signs of Holiday Stress in Your Pet

Animal stress can manifest in various ways, and it’s important to be attentive to these signs to address the underlying causes and provide comfort and support. Signs of stress in animals include:

Body language changes
- Increased trembling, shivering, or shaking
- A hunched or tense body posture
- Flattened ears (in dogs) or pinned-back ears (in cats)
- Tail tucking between the legs (in dogs)
- Increased or decreased mobility (either restlessness or lethargy)
Vocalization changes
- Excessive barking or whining (in dogs)
- Excessive meowing, hissing, or growling (in cats)
- Changes in the pitch or tone of vocalizations
Aggression or avoidance
- Aggressive behavior, such as growling, biting, or hissing
- Attempts to escape or hide from people, other animals, or certain situations
Destructive behavior:
- Scratching or chewing on furniture or objects
- Digging excessively (in dogs)
- Self-mutilation, such as excessive licking or biting of their own body
Inappropriate elimination
- Urinating or defecating outside the litter box or designated area
Appetite and digestive changes
- Changes in eating habits, such as refusing food or overeating
- Upset stomach, vomiting, or diarrhea
Panting and drooling
- Excessive panting (in dogs) or drooling (in dogs and cats)
Excessive Grooming
- Cats may groom themselves excessively when stressed, potentially leading to hair loss
Change in sleep patterns
- Insomnia or excessive sleep
Tail movement:
- Increased tail flicking or swishing (in cats)
- A puffed-up tail (in some birds and small mammals).
Excessive salivation
- Drooling more than usual can indicate stress, especially in dogs
Excessive vocalization
- Anxious animals might bark, meow, or whine more than usual
Hypervigilance
- Being constantly alert, looking around anxiously
Excessive pacing or circling
- Repeatedly moving back and forth or in circles
Avoidance of eye contact
- Animals may avoid direct eye contact with people or other animals when stressed.
Excessive shedding
- Stress can sometimes lead to increased shedding in pets
Agitation and Irritability
- Restlessness and irritability can be indicative of stress

Situations That Cause Holiday Stress

Now that you know what to look out for, let’s take a look at what causes a pet to be stressed during the holidays.

Visitors and strangers: The arrival of unfamiliar guests can be distressing for some pets. The increased foot traffic and attention can disrupt their routines and make them feel uneasy.
Decorations: Bright, flashing, or noisy decorations such as holiday lights, tinsel, and ornaments can pique a pet’s curiosity and may lead to ingestion or play-related injuries.
Change in routine: Pets thrive on routine, so any disruption can lead to stress. This includes changes in feeding times, walking schedules, or even just having more people around the house.
Travel: If your pet is not accustomed to traveling, taking them on holiday trips can be a stressful experience. New environments, car rides, or flights can cause stress.
Holiday parties: Crowded and noisy gatherings can be overwhelming for animals. Social situations with strangers, loud music, and commotion can be stress-inducing for your pet.
Unfamiliar scents: Holiday decorations and candles can introduce new scents into the home, which might be unsettling for pets.
Gift wrapping: Wrapping and unwrapping gifts can create an environment with unfamiliar noises and movements, which can be distressing to pets.

How To Manage Your Pet’s Holiday Stress

Here are some things you can do to ensure your pet has the least amount of holiday stress as possible:

Maintain routine and familiarity: Your pets thrive on routine and familiarity. The hustle and bustle of the holidays can disrupt their daily schedule, leading to stress. To keep them calm, try to stick to their usual feeding, walking, and playtime routines as much as possible. If changes are necessary, make them gradual to allow your pet to adjust at their own pace.
Create a safe haven: Provide a quiet, safe space where your pet can retreat when the holiday chaos becomes overwhelming. This sanctuary could be a separate room with their favorite toys, bed, and blankets. You may also put a piece of your clothing that has your scent on it in this space to help provide reassurance and comfort. Once you’ve established this space, it’s important to encourage family and guests to respect your pet’s need for solitude and peace.
Be mindful of decorations: Holiday decorations can be intriguing for pets, but they can also pose risks. Keep a close eye on tinsel, ornaments, and lights that your pet might find tempting to play with. Tinsel and decorations, if ingested, can be harmful. Secure your Christmas tree and consider using a pet-friendly deterrent to discourage exploration.
Communicate with your pet: As an animal communicator, I encourage you to communicate with your pet on an energetic level. Let them know that they are loved and safe during this time. Spend quality time with them, engage in calming activities like gentle petting, and reassure them when they seem anxious.
Mentally stimulate them: Ensure your pet receives plenty of mental stimulation to help reduce pent-up energy and stress. Taking your dog for a long walk in a new area or providing new toys and puzzles for your cat can be effective ways to keep them engaged and content.

Holidays can be a wonderful time for you and your pets, but it’s essential to consider their well-being amidst the festivities. By maintaining their routines, creating safe spaces, and being mindful, you can help keep your furry companions calm and happy during the holidays. Remember, open communication with your pet and plenty of love and attention can make this festive season truly special for them as well.

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Thanksgiving Insights: Understanding Your Pet’s Gratitude

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date October 27, 2023

It’s the season of gratitude, and while we’re grateful for the immeasurable joy and comfort our pets bring us, have you ever wondered how they feel about their human companions? While they can’t express their gratitude in words, the bond between pets and their humans is undeniably strong. In this blog, we’ll explore the unspoken gratitude of pets and how animal communication can provide valuable insights into what they like and appreciate about us.

The Unspoken Bond

Our pets, whether dogs, cats, birds, or any other furry or feathered friends, form deep emotional connections with us. The bond between pets and their human companions is built on trust, comfort, and shared experiences. They thrive on the love, care, and companionship we provide and are, therefore, eternally grateful for it.

Understanding Their Gratitude for What We Provide

Unwavering presence: Our pets are profoundly grateful for our constant presence in their lives. Whether it’s your daily walk with your dog, cuddle time with your cat, or simply being there when they need you, they appreciate your unwavering companionship.
Love and affection: Our furry friends thrive on love and affection. Through animal communication, we can discover just how much they treasure our hugs, cuddles, and belly rubs. It’s not just about their physical well-being; it’s also about the emotional nourishment we provide.
A safe haven: Pets feel gratitude for the safe and comfortable homes we provide. A secure environment, nourishing meals, and a cozy bed are all expressions of love and care that they hold dear.
Shared adventures: Pets revel in the shared adventures we undertake with them, whether it’s a romp in the park, a hike in the woods, or a lazy day spent together. These shared experiences strengthen the bond between you and your pet.

Animal Communication – Bridging the Gap

The examples given previously are all things that our pets are grateful for, but we can go even further and find exactly what they are grateful for. Animal communication is a remarkable way to understand your pet’s emotions and desires, even when they cannot express them verbally.

Here’s how it can help:

Connect on a Deeper Level

Animal communicators have the ability to connect with your pet on an energetic level, enabling them to express their feelings, fears, and joys. This opens up a two-way channel of communication, allowing you to understand your pet better.

Discover Preferences

By talking to your pet through an animal communicator, you can learn about their favorite toys, treats, and activities. This insight helps you tailor their environment to make them even happier.

Address Concerns

Animal communication can also help identify any sources of stress or discomfort in your pet’s life. Addressing these concerns can enhance their overall well-being.

Our pets are not just companions; they are family. The gratitude they feel for the love, care, and companionship we provide is immeasurable. Through the practice of animal communication, we can delve into the depths of their emotions, understand their likes and dislikes, and foster a stronger, more enriching relationship. It’s a way to honor the unspoken bond that brings us joy and enriches our lives in countless ways. In knowing what our pets are grateful for, we can reciprocate their love and care, making their lives even more joyful.

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Preparing Your Pets for Halloween: A Communicator’s Guide

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date September 25, 2023

As the seasons change and the air turns crisp, we all start to feel the excitement of fall. However, it’s essential to remember that our beloved pets may not share the same enthusiasm for Halloween as we do. While we eagerly anticipate the festivities of this spooky season, our furry companions can find it overwhelming. In this guide, we will explore how to ensure your pets have a safe and comfortable Halloween experience.

Halloween: From Ancestors to Ghoulish Celebrations

Halloween has a rich history, originally rooted in the spiritual honoring of ancestors. Over time, it has transformed into a prolonged celebration filled with ghoulish costumes, a surplus of candy, and elaborate decorations. From a child’s perspective, Halloween is a time of great joy, with the opportunity to dress up in costumes, attend parties with neighbors, and embark on a trick-or-treating adventure. In recent years, the holiday has even incorporated elaborate laser light displays, Halloween scarecrows emitting spooky sounds, moving ghosts, and smoke machines.

However, from your pet’s point of view, there’s not much to celebrate. The dancing monsters, loud and scary sounds, flashing lights, and excited, screaming kids can create a sensory overload that many pets find distressing. While some pets can handle this overload without showing signs of stress, many will experience fear, anxiety, hyper-sensitivity, and confusion.

Hazards for Pets During Halloween

Choking Hazards: Small plastic toys and decorations that are part of Halloween decor can pose a choking hazard to pets, especially curious dogs and cats.
Toxic Candy: Most Halloween candy is unhealthy for our furry family members; some can even be deadly if ingested. Keep all candy out of reach.
Costume Discomfort: Although it may seem cute to dress up our pets in costumes, many dogs and cats find it uncomfortable and even frightening. Costumes can obstruct vision, increase the risk of entrapment or strangulation, and cause discomfort.

Statistics to Consider

Choking Hazard Cases: On average, veterinary clinics report a 25% increase in choking hazard cases involving pets during the Halloween season.
Candy-Related Pet Emergencies: Each year, there is a 15% rise in pet emergencies related to candy ingestion during the weeks leading up to and following Halloween.

Preparing Your Pets for Halloween

Special Halloween Treats: Show your love by baking some homemade treats for your pets, using healthy ingredients that won’t harm them.
Safe and Comfortable Costumes: If you absolutely must dress up your pet, as over 75% of pet owners do, choose costumes that fit securely, allow freedom of movement, and can be easily removed. Never leave your pet unattended in a costume.
Monitoring and Socializing: Pay close attention to your pet’s behavior during Halloween festivities. If they seem stressed or anxious, provide them with a calm and quiet space to retreat to. Allow them to socialize within their comfort zone, and remove them from overwhelming situations.
Seasonal Activities: Consider participating in seasonal activities like picnics or benefit dog walks designed for pets and their owners. These events can be a great way to celebrate Halloween while keeping your pets safe and healthy.
Animal Communication: If you already have an anxious pet, using an animal communicator to help you communicate to your pet that they are safe is a great way to make them feel most comfortable.

Halloween is undoubtedly a thrilling time of year, but it’s crucial to remember that our pets need special care and attention during this season. By keeping their comfort and safety in mind, you can ensure you and your furry friends enjoy a spooktacular Halloween together. So, let’s celebrate the season responsibly and keep our pets in mind every step of the way.

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Beyond the Barks and Meows: Decoding Pet Body Language

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date August 29, 2023

Can you imagine being in an age where verbal communication wasn’t prevalent? All animals on Earth today, including the Human animal, evolved for most of its history relying solely on non-verbal communication. Some studies show that it was not until perhaps 50,000 years ago that humans developed a spoken language, while others say it could have been around for well over 200,000 years.

Today, Humans Focus On Verbal Communication, Not Body Language

Despite when scientists believe verbal language started being used, we have, by this time in our evolution, become quite focused and reliant on our verbal skills to communicate with others. Becoming ever more distant from our earlier knowledge and familiarity of the non-verbal, or body language of our ancestors. This deep ancestral knowledge of reading body language has not, however, gone away completely. It has just faded into the background of our awareness while we focus on the busy and loud human world we live in.

This loud, verbal world has left little attention remaining to focus on and “listen to” the subtle, silent, non-verbal “language” of our animal companions. The animals, however, have had little attention or use for our loud babble and have been developing and refining their non-verbal communication skills over thousands of years.

Each species has developed its own unique set of body language skills that include

Eye contact and pupil dilation
Head posture
Ear position
Body stance
Facial expression
Tail carriage and movement

These can be combined in an infinite number of combinations to express the feelings, intentions, and ideas that they need to convey to friends or foes.

Animals Rely on Body Language and Sounds

Many species have also developed sounds to use along with their body language, such as barks, meows, nickers, and chirps, but these are used as a nuance to the primary non-verbal language in most species. In fact, many scientists still do not qualify them as language because they lack some of the defining characteristics of language, such as grammar and syntax.

Some animal species are considered “vocal learners” that can mimic human speech, such as parrots, dolphins, and beluga whales, yet this is usually not considered “language” but an excellent imitation of human speech. These animals do not use human speech to communicate with their own kind, just with humans as they are taught.

Miscommunications Between Pets and Their Owners

“Whether we speak the same language or not, the most important thing is that we strive to understand one another.”

Many of us train verbal commands to our pets in an effort to make ourselves understood, and I believe that we should be making an equal effort to understand the unique signals of communication that are native to our animal companions.

In consultation with my clients, I find that many of the “problems” pet owners experience with their family pets are due to miscommunication between the two species. We speak and expect our pets to understand our meaning, yet we are often completely unaware of the language they are attempting to share with us – the non-verbal language of their own species.

The Importance of Understanding Your Pet’s Body Language

One might see a dog wagging its tail and assume it is relaxed and happy, but that signal does not carry over to the language of a cat or horse. A cat wagging his tail conveys excitement or annoyance, and when a horse “wags” his tail, you better step back because he is quite irritated and may follow through with a kick.

Whether you have adopted an adult dog, are training a young horse, or trying to negotiate with the family cat, having the skills to notice and respond non-verbally will help to develop the relationship between you.

Developing a deeper relationship with our companion animals relies on developing accurate communication between us. After all, when traveling in a foreign country, speaking louder and slower in English is not the best way to break through the communication barrier. Take the time to learn about the subtle nuance of language and communication that is used by the one you wish to communicate with.

Any individual, whether human or animal, feels better when they can express themselves, be heard and understood, and understand in response. Developing this common communication system helps to develop trust in relationships and fosters a feeling of belonging and safety.

Resources for Pet Owners

Dog Owners

Imagine being able to tell when your dog is stressed and preventing a bite based solely on the dog’s body language. Well, you can! Here is a general guide to interpreting stress signals from your dog.

Cat Owners

Cat Daddy Jackson Galaxy breaks down what you need to know about cat body language in this video.

Horse Owners

To handle a horse safely, it is important to understand the changes in expression and posture that can tell you what they are thinking. You can read more here.

An animal communicator can also help you cultivate a deeper understanding between you and your pets by translating your thoughts and ideas into images and feelings that your pet can understand. Consider scheduling your personal consultation now.

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Thinking Outside the Box – What To Do When Your Cat Goes Outside the Box

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date July 31, 2023

There are so many wonderful reasons to choose a cat as your household companion but cleaning up the litter box does not top the list. We are lucky that cats have become domesticated enough that they willingly choose to eliminate in a litter box rather than on our floors. This behavior can often go awry and for any cat lover, having a cat that deposits their waste outside of their litter box can be a deeply frustrating experience. This behavior can have complex layers of motivation from health issues to territory disputes but is generally a cat’s call for help. Here are some tips that may help you to discover the motivation for the behavior and correct it.

Tip 1 – Clean the Litter Box

First things first, clean the litter box. Recent studies show that domestic cats have less concern about the TYPE of litter that you use and more concern about stepping in their own waste.

No matter how many cats you have, how many litter boxes and what type of litter, clean that box out every single day. Cats do not enjoy stepping in and around their own waste in order to do their business.

Tip 2 – Pick the Correct Sized Box

Providing an attractive litter set-up that fits both your needs and the needs of your cat(s) can go a long way to improve the litter box habits of your cat. Pick a box that is large enough for your cat. Cats tend to prefer an uncovered box that is large enough to turn around in. An open-top box with high sides to reduce litter scatter works well for most households. Your household should have one litter box for each cat plus one extra. Ideally, one box on each level of the home to reduce territory disputes and ease of access.

Tip 3 – Pick the Right Litter

Trial and error will help you to select a type of litter that your cat is happy to use. Some cats prefer a clay type, while others do better with a soft silica texture. Select clumping or non-clumping to fit your routine but always select an unscented brand. Remember that your cat’s sense of smell is much more advanced than ours so most fragrances can be overwhelming for them. The best litter is clean litter.

What if my cat still goes outside of the box?

If you have provided a clean and easily accessible litter box and your pet continues to eliminate outside the box, it is time to consult your veterinarian. Many health conditions can alter your cat’s litter box habits. Urinary tract infections, idiopathic cystitis, diabetes, kidney disease, and cancer are other possibilities. You can read more about these conditions and others in this article. If going outside of the litter box is a recurring issue, it’s time to ask your vet for a full exam as pain from other conditions, such as arthritis, can also be a motivating behavior and the change in litter box habits. No matter the reason, typically, going outside of the box can be your cat’s call for help.

Other causes for avoiding the litter box can be territory disputes between multiple cats, foot pain from rough litter, and residual scent left on rugs by other pets. Some cats act out their frustration and stress by urinating outside the box. Do a deep assessment of the household routine to determine if any recent changes or additions have caused increased stress to your cat. The addition of a new family member and even rearranged furniture can be enough to stress out some cats.

Hire An Animal Communicator

Often, the consultation of an animal communicator can be key to uncovering the cause. In one client consult, the family cat was able to indicate mold growth on the basement floor as his motivator. The family was unaware of a slow water leak in the basement that had resulted in chronic dampness and, thus, mold growth. The cat was able to point it out and resumed his previous litter box habits once the mold was gone.

In the majority of cases, cats prefer to use their own clean litter box rather than go on the floor and they usually feel that they have a valid cause for going outside the box. A cat will rarely go outside the box simply to “be naughty,” so punishment will not correct the behavior. Our challenge is to see the situation through their eyes and uncover their motivator, remedy the issue, and then reset the habit. The solution often involves Thinking Outside the Box!

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Summer Reading for Pet Owners

Post author By Marjorie Lewis
Post date July 31, 2023

Do you love to spend some of your summer downtime reading? If so, I’ve got a great list of books for you! Whether you spend your summer lounging on the beach or browsing through an old bookstore, this list of books will help you discover a new (or old) book and begin looking at your human-pet relationship in a new way.

Animals Make Us Human by Temple Grandin – If you’ve ever owned, cared for, or had a care in the world for an animal, this book is for you. Grandin explains the core emotional needs of animals and encourages you to explore our bond with them.
Animals in Translation: Using the Mysteries of Autism to Decode Animal Behavior by Temple Grandin – Looking for a life-changing book you won’t want to put down? This book is it! It will forever change the way you think about animals and give you great insight into the way they think.
As the Stars Fall by Steve N Lee – If a heartwarming novel is more your speed, read this book. You’ll see how friendships heal us and how compassion can make us whole again.
Horse Brain, Human Brain by Janet Jones – If you are into brain science, this one might be for you. In this book, seeing, learning, fearing, trusting, and focusing are discussed from both human and horse perspectives. You’ll see just how much can be communicated between these two beings and how they can negotiate the world together.
Mental Exercises for Dogs by Timi Foster – If you and your dog want to get out and get busy this summer, try this family-friendly guide to unleash your dog’s potential.
Chicken Soup for the Pet Lover’s Soul by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, and Carol Kline – This Chicken Soup collection shares stories about the unique bonds that animals and humans have and how pets have been teachers, healers, heroes, and friends. It’s a book that’s sure to bring you joy and inspiration.
Feline Nutrition – Nutrition for the Optimum Health and Longevity of Your Cat by Lynn Curtis – The rate of diseases such as cancer and diabetes is skyrocketing amongst our companion animals in part due to the increase in commercial “junk food” available on the market today. Often filled with chemical additives and low-nutrient fillers, these high-carbohydrate foods do not come close to the “natural” diet our carnivorous cats crave. Reading this book will help you nourish your feline friend and strengthen your understanding of their needs.
Mindfulness Coloring Book – If you don’t feel much like reading but prefer to relax into a state of mindfulness, these animal images might do the trick.

No matter if you like jumping into science or just want a heart-warming book, these books can help you deepen the bond and understanding between you and your animal by embracing new ideas. You can also deepen your bond by hiring an animal communicator which can give you even more insight into the way your animal feels and behaves.

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